It’s what he did _________ what he said that moved us.

You must have waited here for a long time ,___________you?

在下面一段话的空缺处依次填入词语，最恰当的一组是《礼记》有云：“君子之交淡如水。”与 的人交往，经常是清且淡；如同作画 淡雅，才能耐看。但写文章，却要 ，一波三折；正如人们游览名山，多爱它的嵯峨多姿，变化莫测。

There was a lot of fun at yesterday’s party. You______come, but why didn’t you?

He had thousands of students, many of ______ gained great success in their own field.